
In this frenetic and fractured world, we can use all the comfort and assurance we can get. We want to know that everythingâs going to be alright. We want to know that we will be alright. And we want to know that the people we love will be alright. Yet, these are things we cannot know, not really.
While we cannot have knowledge, we can have faith. Scripture offers us so many promises of care and protection:
âWe are hard-pressed on every side, yet not crushed; we are perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed.â
(2 Corinthians 4:9)
âSo do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.â (Isaiah 41:10)
âBe strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; she will never leave you nor forsake you.” (Deuteronomy 31:6)
âThe Lord will keep you from all harm; she will watch over your life; The Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore.â (Psalm 121:7-8)
âWhen you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.â (Isaiah 43:2)
âYou keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle.
You have recorded each one in your book.â ( Psalm 56:8)
What a gift that we have faith and friends! I never minimize the care and comfort I receive from my friends, the many ways they offer blessings on my life. Sometimes a kind word from a friend far away brings me deep comfort just when I need it most. Sometimes a phone call from a friend, just to check on me, feels like the warmth of the sun. Sometimes one of my doctors will know exactly what to say to ease my concerns. And so often one of my dialysis nurses hones in on a worry thatâs just underneath the surface and helps me bring it to the light that begins a healing process. Caring friends â and family â are most definitely grace gifts from God.
The truth is that we do not have to bear our burdens alone. Faith gives us the awareness of a God who cares and comforts. The promises of Scripture are not merely words on a page. They are messages of hope that we can hold onto when  nights are long and frightening.
So faith brings us hope and comfort from a caring God who knows what is in our hearts. And lifeâs journey brings us friends willing to walk with us. It is not unusual for a friend to know intuitively when I really need to hear a comforting word. When that happens, our conversation often results in tears, probably tears that I had held back in an effort to âbe strong.â My friends show me, in so many ways, that I donât have to be strong and that I can just âbe.â When we talk, I feel that lump in my throat that is both an awareness of a hurt Iâve been holding onto and a response of gratitude for a friend who truly cares.
Thanks be to God for faith and friends.








As we are praying, gun injuries cause the deaths of 18 children and young adults each day in the U.S. And every day, 100 Americans are killed with guns. Can we ignore the fact that nearly 1 million women alive today have been shot, or shot at, by an intimate partner?

I think often about roads, the roads that take people where they want to go, or not. I think with deep fondness about the terribly rough and broken roads we traveled in Uganda. The time was immediately after the horrific reign of Idi Amin that left the roads, and the entire country, in shambles. I remember the difficulty in traveling those rough, broken roads â washed out, bombed out, neglected for years.

What a caring and compassionate ministry it is to sit beside someone who is grieving and remind them of Godâs grace. In recent days, I have wept for and with so many friends who are grieving for what they have lost because of the Florida hurricane. To be sure, there were losses in Georgia and in the Carolinas, but the devastation in and around Panama City was catastrophic.