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Grace Grows Best in Winter

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When my mother was very ill, I gave her a book entitled, “Grace Grows Best in Winter.” I was intrigued by the title and did a bit of research to find the original writing of those words. I discovered that in his letters, Samuel Rutherford expresses the thought, “I see that grace groweth best in winter.”

For some people, wintertime is symbolic of a time of slowing down, dormancy, a kind of human hibernation. Fields lie fallow, resting . . .waiting for the time of planting, growing, and harvest. Animals wait and look for signs of spring so that they can begin to build nests and new homes, and do all the things animals do in the spring. People stay indoors, trying to stay warm, and wait for warmer days.

Some people experience a kind of winter sadness which is very real, real enough to have been named Seasonal Affective Disorder. Other people describe periods of pain and suffering as the winter of life.

Grass and flowers and plants and trees do not grow much in winter. Many tender plants cannot grow at all in winter. There are flowers that would not even survive the cold of winter. And yet, according to Samuel Rutherford, grace grows best in winter.

Perhaps what he had in mind is the comforting thought that even in life’s wintertimes, one may find the gift of grace that can sustain until spring. It’s the kind of grace, I think, that God gives us when the days are long and dreary, when we think the sun might never shine again.

Every winter has birthed a spring, a season where we will see signs of life all around. The days will become longer and the sun will shine a bit warmer. The trees will come back to life and flowers will begin to bud and blossom. God’s spring promises will be evident in every corner of creation.

And yet, in my life or yours, it may feel as cold and gloomy as any winter could be. Certainly, there are life circumstances that make us feel that winter will never be over for us. In the corridors and waiting rooms and family rooms and patient rooms of our hospitals, there are signs everyday that winter won’t pass. Persons who have lost loved ones find themselves in a winter of life that may seem endless. Families experiencing violence often believe that the winter won’t pass. Children living in abusive homes begin to believe the words in The Chronicles of Narnia, “It’s always winter and never Christmas.

Victims of recent gun violence, racism and terrorism probably feel as if the harsh cold of winter will never pass. And certainly, we all feel the angst that is prevailing over us in these days. Every time a terrorist act is committed, every time an innocent child dies from gun violence, every time a mosque is burned, we know that we live in perilous times.

All around, there is pain and sorrow and disappointment and anxiety. But there are also tiny signs that grace really does grow best in winter . . . that God still comes to comfort and console us on the coldest winter days . . . that friends still give the grace-gifts of love and caring . . . that families still stick close together and offer the grace of being near when the days are cold and dark.

Grace probably does grow best in winter, because that’s when we need it the most.

There’s a tiny passage of scripture nestled in the pages of the Bible, almost hidden in the unusual writing of the Old Testament book called Song of Songs. It’s a wonderful promise that’s good to hang on to when winter seems endless.

See! The winter is past; the rains are over and gone. Flowers appear on the earth; the season of singing has come.

If today seems to you like a wintertime of life, if it seems that spring might never come again, if you definitely don’t feel like singing . . . may this promise become real for you and may your season of singing come again.

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Welcoming Transformation

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What do you say or do while standing at the beginning of a brand new year? What eloquent words might describe the emotions of new beginnings, of starting over with all things new? Beyond making a list of common resolutions, how do you start the pathway toward a new year of life? How can you make 2016 the year of your transformation?

For me, beginning a new year feels like starting a new journey. You have no idea what lies ahead, but the excitement of a new journey is exhilarating and a bit frightening, all at once. I especially like the expression from the following quote.

No part of the journey is wasted. Once you recognize within yourself a hunger for something more than just continuing, once you taste even the possibility of touching the meaning enfolded in your life, you can never be completely content with just going through the motions . . . The wisdom touched in moments of real intimacy penetrates the soul with knowledge of who and what we are. It transforms us.

~ Oriah Mountain Dreamer

Life’s journey is about experiencing moments of intimacy that penetrate my soul with the knowledge of who I truly am. And that is my hope for 2016, that I will welcome my transformation each day in new ways, that I will get in touch with the meaning that’s hidden in my life. It will take some introspection and meditation, some tranquility and some serenity. But it will be a worthwhile goal for this sparkling new year.

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A Prayer for the New Year, 2016

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God of past and present time, God of the year to come,

Hear our prayer as we come to the end of the past year and stand on the cusp of the new one.

Forgive the sins and omissions of the past, and grant us fresh hope for new beginnings.

Caress the hurts of the past, and grant us a future without harm.

Help us to make peace with the past, and grant us true peace in the year ahead.

Repair the brokenness of the year past, and grant us wholeness and fullness in the year to come.

Refresh the weariness that the year gone by has brought us, and renew our spirits in the new year.

O God, our help in ages past, our hope for years to come.
Be thou our guard while life shall last and our eternal home.

Amen

(“O, God, Our Help in Ages Past” by Isaac Watts)

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New Year Resolutions by Ken Sehested

I find this expression by Ken Sehested to be so full of wisdom that I am compelled to share it with you in my Blog.

Take my life and let it be / consecrated, Lord, to Thee.
In all seasons, in every shape and condition of our lives,
transform our minds and hearts in ways that magnify the rule of Mercy:

In ways that conform to Your extravagant and redemptive purposes;
in our hopes and promises, in our joys and our sorrows,
whether rising or resting, at home or away,
at work and at play, with those near and dear but also with strangers,
in our longing and our learning to love enemies.

In an age ruled by terror—both by state and by sect—place on our lips
the subversive claim of the Resurrection.
As the vanguard of your coming Commonwealth,
give us the courage to live at odds with the rage of this age.

Inspire in us a thirst for beauty and for truth.
Instill in us the wisdom to track the signs of your Spirit moving
in odd ways and in unbeknown places.
Incite in us the compassion for those neglected parts
of your creation—soul and soil alike—
in our neighborhoods, in our nation, in the whole wide world.

Bless these resolutions, these promises,
made today in response to your beckoning,
and make us ever more faithful, day by passing day. Amen.

©Ken Sehested @ prayerandpolitiks.org.

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Light Into the New Year

 

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The year ahead is never clear to us. For some, stepping into it can feel like a step into the darkness. Our hope is to tread safely through the darkness that is 2016, and to find enough light to guide us.

For those who experienced difficulty in 2015, a new year may feel frightening. However, the year may also feel light-filled and full of new promise. May it be so for all of us, and may we find the light we need.

The following poem by Minnie Louise Haskins expresses it so well. In the end, the poet invites us to place our hand in God’s hand and to walk ahead in safety. May you walk safety into 2016 with all the light you need to find your way.

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All Things New

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I am the new year. I am an unspoiled page in your book of time.

I am your next chance at the art of living. I am your opportunity to practice what you have learned about life during the last twelve months.

All that you sought and didn’t find is hidden in me, waiting for you to search it but with more determination.

All the good that you tried for and didn’t achieve is mine to grant when you have fewer conflicting desires.

All that you dreamed but didn’t dare to do, all that you hoped but did not will, all the faith that you claimed but did not have—these slumber lightly, waiting to be awakened by the touch of a strong purpose.

I am your opportunity to renew your allegiance to Him who said, “Behold, I make all things new.”

– From Bible Illustrator

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A Brighter 2016

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“Rejoice in hope, be patient in suffering, persevere in prayer.”

  • Romans 12:12 New Revised Standard Version (NRSV)

Approaching a new year often brings to mind a boatload of resolutions. For me, they usually turn out to be broken promises to myself. And that’s not a good way to start a fresh new year. I could resolve to read more, or to exercise more, or to eat healthier. But reality tells me I won’t do all of that.

There is one resolution I would very much like to make, and I discovered It in the 12th chapter of Romans. I truly believe it’s the key to a brighter year.

So my New Year’s resolution for 2016 is this:

“Rejoice in hope, be patient in suffering, persevere in prayer.”

I believe it will sustain me well, whatever 2016 brings my way.

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Having Peace

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I recently read a quote that makes a lot of sense: “Pick your battles carefully. It’s sometimes better to have peace than to win.”

It would be a good lesson to learn, at least for me. I have often dug in my heels in a disagreement, determined to have the last word. I have, in the past, stubbornly faced off with other people, because I knew I was right. The truth is that I may well have been right, but perhaps the confrontation did not merit a full-on battle.

Giving in when you are in the middle of a disagreement is sometimes the best way to get to a place of peace. And yes, sometimes it really is better to have peace than to win. The older I get, the more important it is to have peace. So I plan to lose some of the small battles I face. I plan to face off on issues that truly matter. I plan to pick carefully the battles I am compelled to fight. It makes good sense.

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A Bright Daybreak of Peace

 

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Following the glories of Christmastime, we again come face to face with the reality of a world in turmoil. The following paraphrased quotation by Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. speaks of a world we can only imagine, a world in which unarmed truth and unconditional love have the final word.

“I refuse to accept the view that humankind is so tragically bound to the starless midnight of racism and war that the bright daybreak of peace and community can never become a reality… I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word.”

Why are we so far away from this kind of world? Why are we still bound to “the starless midnight of racism and war?” What can we do to bring about the daybreak of peace?

Somehow, we must do what we can to end the rhetoric of hate that we hear from our leaders and potential leaders. How long has it been since our candidates for political office promised a daybreak of peace, a brighter world, a united community where neighbor cared for neighbor?

Instead we hear of the ways we will bomb our enemies. We hear words that call for even more racism and war. We long for a positive candidate for office, a candidate that is intent upon reaching for truth, peace, hope and unconditional love.

To be sure, there are harsh realities that may well require us to be at war in various ways. But isn’t it possible to proclaim a message that inspires us to good instead of a message that employs a rhetoric of hate?

We need a candidate that inspires us to become our higher selves. If we can find that candidate, we will embrace her/his spirit of all that is good among us. If such a leader emerges, we will follow her/him in rebuilding our shattered world.

May God grant us such a leader, and soon. And may God ennoble us to follow the one that inspires us to reach with all our might toward a bright daybreak of peace.

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The Eve of Christmas

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Today, we are experiencing the eve of Christmas! Traditionally, it is for us a quiet day. And it is a silent night of waiting.

There is no day like this one in all the year. When night falls, Christmas Eve breaks the silence and sings to us of God’s love and grace. It sings to us of the Prince of Peace that comes to us anew each Christmas. It shines a glorious light that brightens the darkest corners of the world. The next morning, a holy celebration descends upon us, for the Holy Child has been born. The Dayspring from on high has visited us.

I pray that your celebration is a sacred one, remembering the silence of waiting, the brilliance of Bethlehem’s star, the singing of angels, the joy-filled expression of young Mary, the baby wrapped in swaddling clothes in a manger.

May Christmas bring you joy, hope, peace and love.

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Nostalgia

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What do you remember as your best Christmas? Was it a childhood memory, a memory from your teen years? In the days around Christmas, we often remember Christmases past, sometimes with great fondness. Sometimes we wish we could recreate the magical emotions of our favorite past Christmas.

And sometimes, we remember Christmases filled with loss and grief. A dear friend of mine lost her son in 2012 right before Christmas. For her, Christmas might always be a time of grief, and certainly nostalgia.

And yet we move on, some of us relishing every Christmas tradition, others just going through the motions. It is true that few of us get to experience a perfect Hallmark-like Christmas. But most all of us experience Christmas with nostalgia.

Nostalgia is delicate, but potent. In Greek, it literally means, “pain from an old wound.” It has been called a twinge in your heart far more powerful than a memory. It is a feeling of a place where we long to go again.

The Christmas season does bring us feelings of nostalgia. But the alternative is to feel no emotion at all. And while we remember the birth of the child we know as the Prince of Peace, the lonely star-lit night in a Bethlehem stable, the miraculous visit of the magi, and the song of angels, it’s more than appropriate to feel nostalgia.

I wish you the feeling of nostalgia this season, and I pray that, though it may bring some sorrow, it will also bring you bright and pleasant memories of Christmases past.

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Love Acts

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When I think of acts of love, I usually think of love towards family and friends. But once in awhile I am amazed by love among strangers. I want to share a story of an act of love from a recent CNN report.

On Monday, Al-Shabaab militants ambushed a bus in Kenya. things didn’t go according to plan. Al-Shabaab militants have a terrifying M.O.: Launch a raid, single out Christians, and then spray them with bullets.

But this time, a group of Kenyan Muslims shielded the Christian passengers and told the attackers they were prepared to die together. The Muslim passengers, who were mostly women, told the Islamic militants to kill them all or leave them alone.

In the attack, the gunmen ordered Muslim 100+ passengers on board to come out of the bus and separate themselves from the Christians, but the Muslim passengers refused. They gave the Christian women their hijabs and helped others hide behind bags in the bus.

“They told them, ‘If you want to kill us, then kill us. There are no Christians here,” he said.

A Christian man who tried to run away was captured and shot dead, Teno said. The driver of a truck, which was trailing the bus, was also killed. But most of the passengers were saved because of the courage and humanity of a group of people, Muslim people, whose religion mandates love for humanity just as Christianity does.

When others around us are demonizing the Muslim people, we should remember this story of human dignity and bravery. We can only pray that each of us will have this much integrity and courage if ever called upon.

Thanks be to God for acts of love.

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A Prayer for Hope

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God of our hopelessness,

Hear our cries for renewed hope in the midst of chaos.

Grant us hearts to yearn for hope even when our heart feels hopeless.

Inspire us to search for hope in unusual places.

Give us the courage to look for hope even as we struggle in this life.

Let us find hope in the eyes of friend and family.

Enlarge our spirits as we seek hope from the astounding world around us.

Forgive us when we fail to share hope with those who desperately need it.

Refresh us with the hope-filled breezes of your Spirit.

And fill us with the hope of your infinite grace,

During this holy season and forever.

Amen.

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A Prayer for Peace

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Loving God, Creator of all,

Listen to the cries of our hearts as we await the coming of the Prince of Peace.

Hear us as we cry out in the midst of a world where peace is not a reality.

Comfort us as we reach out with heart and hand to our brothers and sisters in need.

Ennoble us to open our arms to those who are in exile.

Make our nation a hospitable land in which all people love their neighbors.

Forgive us for acts and words of hatred, exclusion and bigotry.

Grant us open hearts that care for all,

And help us walk in the image of Christ.

Amen

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Peace on Earth, Good Will to Us All

 

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Today, I simply want to share this Christmas story about Henry Wadsworth Longfellow. In the summer of 1861, Longfellow’s wife died tragically in a fire. That first Christmas without her, he wrote in his diary, “How inexpressibly sad are the holidays.” The next year was no better, as he recorded, “ ‘A merry Christmas,’ say the children, but that is no more for me.”

Then two years later, during the American Civil War, Longfellow’s son joined the army against his father’s wishes and was critically injured. On Christmas Day that year, as church bells announced the arrival of another painful Christmas, Longfellow picked up his pen and began to write, “I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day.”

He heard the Christmas bells that December day and the singing of “peace on earth” (Luke 2:14), but he observed the world of injustice and violence that seemed to mock the truthfulness of this optimistic outlook.

The poem begins pleasantly, lyrically, but then takes a dark turn. The violent imagery of the pivotal fourth verse does not sound at all like a Christmas carol. “It was as if an earthquake rent the hearth-stones of a continent,” he wrote. The poet nearly gave up: “And in despair I bowed my head; ‘There is no peace on earth,’ I said.”

But then, even from the depths of that bleak Christmas day, Longfellow heard the irrepressible sound of hope, and he wrote this seventh stanza.

Then pealed the bells more loud and deep: “God is not dead, nor doth He sleep! The wrong shall fail, the right prevail, with peace on earth, good will to men!”

You can read the entire poem below:

I heard the bells on Christmas Day
Their old, familiar carols play,
and wild and sweet the words repeat
Of peace on earth, good will to men!

And thought how, as the day had come,
The belfries of all Christendom
Had rolled along the unbroken song
Of peace on earth, good will to men!

Till ringing, singing on its way,
The world revolved from night to day,
A voice, a chime, a chant sublime
Of peace on earth, good will to men!

Then from each black, accursed mouth
The cannon thundered in the South,
And with the sound the carols drowned
Of peace on earth, good will to men!

It was as if an earthquake rent
The hearth-stones of a continent,
And made forlorn the households born
Of peace on earth, good will to men!

And in despair I bowed my head;
“There is no peace on earth,” I said;
“For hate is strong, and mocks the song
Of peace on earth, good will to men!”

Then pealed the bells more loud and deep:
“God is not dead, nor doth He sleep;
The Wrong shall fail, the Right prevail,
With peace on earth, good will to men.”

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Soften Your Heart

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Fear, anger, grief, and any number of emotions can leave us with hardened hearts. Letting our hearts get hard seems to protect us from feeling vulnerable. Hardened hearts seldom feel pain. And so we do what we need to do to protect ourselves from pain.

The problem, though, is that a hardened heart that feels no pain may also feel no joy or hope or love, the positive human emotions that make us who we are. The remedy? Take a chance at life, at the full range of life’s emotions. Soften your heart. Let it feel and respond to the emotions life sends your way.

The Bible says this about a hardened heart:

“They are darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them, due to their hardness of heart.” – Ephesians 4:18 ESV

Soften your heart and enjoy this season of angels. Let the star of Bethlehem lead you to find the Christ child. Reach out your heart and hand to those who have need. Offer an extra bit of lovingkindness to those whose hearts are hardened by the circumstances in their lives.

In these days of the Holy season, we are also inundated with the hateful rhetoric and harmful behavior caused by politics. We are hearing of war and violence everyday. Though we may feel that the darkness has descended upon the world, may the light be stronger.

Thanks be to God for “the Dayspring from on high who has visited us, to shine on those living in darkness and in the shadow of death, to guide our feet into the way of peace.” – Luke 1:78-79

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“The Wild Hope of Christmas”

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Frederick Buechner writes about “the wild hope of Christmas.” It is so true that most of us look for that glimpse of hope in Christmas. When our hope is small, when the world seems hopeless, we look to Christmas, yearning to find our hope again.

And we do find hope in Bethlehem’s star and in the Holy Infant born in a stable. We find the hope of Christmas in every act of kindness, in the singing of the Angels, in the bright eyes of a child.

Although Christmas can be the bluest of seasons because of losses we have experienced and grief unresolved, there is still that astounding promise of Christmas, that God is with us. I cannot say it any better than does Frederick Buechner:

What keeps the wild hope of Christmas alive year after year in a world notorious for dashing all hopes is the haunting dream that the child who was born that day may yet be born again even in us and our own snowbound, snowblind longing for him.

– Frederick Buechner, from Secrets in the Dark

May the wild hope of Christmas come alive in you, this year and forever.

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Under His Wings

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So many people are seeking refuge in these days. I cannot help but think of the plight of the refugees seeking protection. An estimated 9 million Syrians have fled their homes since the outbreak of civil war in March 2011, taking refuge in neighboring countries or within Syria itself. It is difficult to even imagine ourselves in the same circumstance, fleeing from our homes, leaving everything behind.

It is incumbent upon us to remember their plight and to pray for them. For families, for little children, this tragic loss is not about politics. It is about finding “home” again. It’s about finding refuge and protection. It’s about placing fear in the hand of a loving God. When I remember all the people looking for a place to call home this season, I remember the comforting words of the 91st Psalm.

He will cover you with his feathers,
and under his wings you will find refuge;
his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.
You will not fear the terror of night,
nor the arrow that flies by day,
nor the pestilence that stalks in the darkness,
nor the plague that destroys at midday.

– Psalm 91:4-6 NIV

May God’s grace prevail in the lives of those who have such great need. Amen.